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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok what do i do im at my wits end.heavily pregnant, still a teenager, my brother goes to the football with mum every weekend and leaves me at home, dads not in the scene, my boyfriend is being difficult at the moment not even sure what im going to do about him because hes getting violent and wont look after my brother, no other family, i cant spend ANY time with my Mum. where ever she goes my brother is with her, i cant even call her in the bedroom to talk to her without him following. we have nobody to look after him (hes 13) my boyfriend is being a dik to me and i have nobody to talk to (dont wanna talk to counsellors) and my mum wont or cant do anything about it. i just wanna spend time with my mum i am pregnant but i am still only 16 myself. I am going through a lot at the moment, when shes at work i look after my brother with my boyfriend and i run around all day cleaning up after them and dont get any help or thanks for it i just feel so alone the one person who i can relate to i have to make an appoitment a month in advance basically just to spend half an hour with her. shes going on a holiday around my due date and is leaving me behind and taking the rest of the family. i feel so freaking left out what can i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Try talking to your mom. Tell her how important she is to you, how much you love her, and that you really need her, especially right now. I would also try talking to your brother, even though he is only thirteen, explain to him that he is special to you too, but sometimes you need to talk alone and be alone with your mom too. So it is not that you don't want to tell him things, but that you need to speak privately with your mother once in a while. I would also lean on your friends. If you lost some of your friends, call them- leave them a sweet message, that you miss them and want to see them... Maybe having another kind of outlet would be good for you too... whether its new friends you can make in a support group for pregnant teens or a class of some sort, or another family member, such as a cousin or aunt.
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