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writes:My boyfriend of 6 yrs just told me he love me but not in love with me.we have a 3 yrs old boy and live together.what does that mean.he have been seein women behind my back.will that relationship work and lead to marriage? Reply to this Question
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reader, infiel  +, writes (30 June 2009):
I'm sorry I know it must be hard. I'm in a similar situation. I'm sure he's told you that he's not in love with you, but he has grown to love you for the thing you do. But there is a difference. The truth, I don't believe he is in love with you and more then likely will continue cheating. What you need to do is get away and think things through not just for you but for your son. After all he and your well being is what is important. Thing will be hard but know matter what you decide you will get through it. And when he realized that what he has done was not the right thing. Then if you decide to return to him and don't make it easy let him sweet it out and then he'll realize what he almost lost. And that's if you decide weather or not you want to continue to be with him. And you will never know for sure if he will do that again but its up to you if you want to put yourself in that position. But you will get feed up with it and all the emotional and physical pain you have gone through will be enough. It's up to you to take that first step.
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reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 I really don't think your relationship will work... if he really loves you even at all, why would he cheat on you with someone else? I'd say you will be much better off with someone who actually cares about you. You deserve better than someone who doesn't love you and cheats on you behind your back.
Hope you find a guy that loves you and treats you with respect.
Hope this helps
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reader, whiteboy415 +, writes (30 June 2009):
 He is not connected to you anymore, the spark is gone and he is out with other woman but comes home to you only because you havent found the strength, courage or the determination to do the only right thing and either kick him out or you leave him. Ur 3 year old son is a human being not an excuse to hide from making a "grown up" decision! bottom line is this... Time to start packing!
would he care if YOU cheated on him??? No is the only correct answer... Why don't you go out and have a few flings yourself!!!
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reader, WHY ME 86 +, writes (30 June 2009):
im in the same situation you are in. i wish i could say everything will workout for the best but i have seen this with my own eyes once a cheater always a cheater. i no u care about this man cause u have a child together but one day you will see everything happens for a reason.
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