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male
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41-50,
*uralikrishna
writes:I am a happily married husband of 24 years with 2 gorgeous children and a beautiful wife. We have been married for 8 years, I am nearly 32, she is 31. I used to vists my family weekly since my job is away from family. After ourlast child ws born, my wife is reluctant to have sex with me. She wants sex infrequently, I must basically beg for it repeatedly. On the rare occations that she agrees to have sex, she makes it very difficult. She wants to finish it off so fast. I have asked many times if there is anything that I can do differently to help get her in the mood, and have followed the comments that she has made with no effect. She does not want me to touch her breast, she barely kisses me . What should I do?
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reader, lovnlife  +, writes (1 July 2009):
I thought i was the only woman going through the same thing for a while after having my baby but from a woman view after you have a baby you feel all wrong inside i mean i ant really explane it uz your a guy but her breast dont even try it after the baby the breast are no longer your to touch lol its sad but true and if you touh them it becomes the biggest turn off and it frustrates her i am sure you just have to give her time and instead of trying to pleez yourself focus on her massage her feet and rub her back if anything happends let her start it dont try to make the massage sexual but try to just make her feel like you apprechiate her and she will open up o yea be sure not to make her feel like if you touch her she will break be firm uz after a baby the last thing you want to think about is being touched like a baby
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reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 Hm.. could she be stressed or worrying about something? This is a common reason for loss of sex drive. If she's on any birth control on taking tablets this can also affect it. Sometimes when people get older there sex drive becomes low and others get higher. It depends on the person.
You could try taking her away on a romantic weekend somewhere alone? This may help her to recover her sex drive ;)
Hope this helps
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