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writes:Well here is the Breakdown... I have a girlfriend now who i care about deeply. We are both starting college and are saving up for a house. We both have good parents who love us and spoil us, along with that we both go to church and love the one who sits on the throne. It almost seems perfect, but then you have THE OLDER SISTER!!!! of my girlfriend. Okay well, when i was a sophomore in high school i met my girlfriend but we did not date we were just regular friends. I met her sisters and family my jounior year but, she became intrested in another guy. Me myself being in high school being dumb decided to talk to her older sister to make her jealous i even told her i liked her but it i lied (at this time i didnt jesus as strong as i do now). Well lets skip to the future... I stopped talking to her sister once i realized it was a dumb decision and she was kind of a player but not really, me and my girlfriend who i was just friends with at the time became really close, and i tried my best to spoil her as much as possible, We became best best friends until highschool was over but we were a little more then friends... Now around that time i thought everything was good, everything seemed fine, but little did i know it was far from fine when it came to the older sister. During the final years of our jr. year in highschool... (she was a senior and we both were jr) we would always hug but she would always push us apart and say give room to breathe or something like that, or even smack me a little because i was holding her sister. She even went to my best friend at the time now my girlfriend. Other best friend which is a girl and tried to pit her against me This was easy sense she admitted to my best friend she was jealous of the time we spent together. Now fast fowarding a little. Im a Senior and have learned alot of spanish. I finally became a sponsored skateboarder like i wanted. my mom and dad gave me a car finally a camry 2002, which everytime we went out i would open doors for her and pay for her meal on a date and pull her chair out which im suppose to do because of schiverly or however you spell it and i have my bestfriend to myself. the problem is with the older sister though. She went and found a guy she did not really have feeling for, dated him, and she told him to look at my actions at how i treat her in the schiverly thing because he did not do it, but this is understandable because every women wants to feel special, and he did do it. It got to the point to were he didnt want to learn spanish but she sat him down and tried to teach him it, not only this but she broke up with him and told him she wanted to be bestfriends just like us.But while they were broken up and not talking for a little period in time she would always get mad if me and her sister were together, and tell her parents she was obssessed when really she is not, she just cares about me very much and i know this. She would even go as far as too lie just to get her in trouble so i couldnt see her. Not only this but she would call constantly to make sure we werent doing anything.We dont do anything and have not given any clues of it so why?. Now once they did the bestfriend ordeal it all stopped...Now lets fastfoward to the future which is now. Her sister is not evil she gave her a puppy for her birthday she obviously has some love for her sister. The thing is though after she gave her the puppy the relationship she had with her guy ended and now she is "fierce". She just got a car, and her license. Now when im not at there house she does not give a hoot about her sister she does not talk to her very much at all. But when i go over there she tries her best to compete with me for her attention but my girlfriend gives it to me because she knows her games. She tries to take her away from me and trys to keep us apart. Well she even trys to let my girlfriend know im no good basicly. Its gotten to a point now where she has given up on all of that and just treats my girlfriend like crap. Just the other day i made my girlfriend a cd as a surprise and she loved it she went inside the house and yelled look mom he bought me a cd and she laid it on the counter. Everybody was in the room except her father and little sister. So, me and my girlfriend go to the park and spend all day together we come back. and her older sister took her cd and was listening to it in her car driving back to her house, she did not even ask to use it, and when my girlfriend went to get it back she acted like she was going to give it to her and she dropped it on the ground on purpose, the little sister is being ignorant at the time and says my girlfriend has anger problems but she does not know anything of the situation and likes to leave her comments wherever she thinks they should go. My girlfriend got the cd and does not attempt to tell her parents because they wont do anything even though they might say the will because to them its just a cd. Now my question is....... What do i do? How do i feel? How do we go about handling this and will it affect us in the future if we do decide to tie the knot? Im in a corner because im really sick of this girl basically being a bother. I have given the sister a $300 video camera and some other stuff to be nice so she would leave us alone. I have even given her rides to places when she needed it even though it went out of my way and im basically wanting her to just go away (not in a threatning way) I just want some peace. How do i achieve peace? I have apologized about the highschool thing but she just had anger in her eyes when i said it and its like she knows she cant say anything to anybody or do anything so she just keeps anger, but what do i do?
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