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*mmaxbaby
writes:I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair bit.He eventually told me he was still married and has two kids both 7 and 3, buts it was too late by then, i had started to fall for him and now i just wish he would leave his wife for me. He sees me whenever he can and we usually just have sex in his car
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reader, Alisa  +, writes (10 July 2009):
You sure got everyones attention, but I'm not going to be mean. You seem to be really young. He's not leaving his wife for you. Judging by the sound of your affair, he won't be around long. My advice is to leave him alone. If your not, make him respect you more. Don't have sex in his car. If he has money like that, make him pay for hotel or something. It's one thing to be a mistress and another to be like a call girl. He is treating you like the latter. Your falling for his sex. He's not putting anything into this. Get off this path trust me it ends in disaster.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): Baby, I hat to tell you this but you are just a lay. Don't be like me. I have been waiting for my love to leave his wife for 5 years. He makes promises, buys me jewelry to "seal the deal" but nothing ever happens. I have gotten a divorce, see my children every other weekend. It hurts soooo bad. Let him go. There is someone out there who will bring you flowers and tell you.... "You are my only Love." Let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): wow, you deserve a lot of things don't you. why not charge him for sex in the car. you can do with the money. what a load of crap. you made me laugh so much, i have no words for you. well, i do have but the MODS here won't allow it. poor darling...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Hmm. He's a lawyer and 'gets paid a fair bit'.
Oh wow, he sounds lovely. Gorgeous. Irresistable.
And 'you deserve a nice rich boyfriend'.
Indeed. Who doesn't.
And they say romance is dead.
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reader, babymama99 +, writes (1 July 2009):
 He can get sex in a car from a prostitute. He's getting you for free. If he's all that rich at least make him splurge for dinner and a room. Looks like he's getting the better end of the deal and what are you getting - a creak in the neck.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Huh. He blew your head up with all those promises and can't swing cash for a hotel room. Not much of a catch even for a married cheater. Sex in the car is some high school "I don't have anywhere to go but my parents' house" type mess, not something high rollers do. Strike one.
He's married and has two small children at home. He's violating his marriage vows, and if he'll cheat with you, he will cheat on you. How can you trust him from now on when you know he doesn't care about his present relationship? Strike two.
Then, he lied about being rich and being married! STRIKE THREE, HE'S OUT OF HERE! GET HIM OFF THE FIELD!
*throws base*
*flips off umpire*
*tosses drink cooler*
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reader, lovnlife +, writes (30 June 2009):
first let me say it happends more then people would like to admitt but right now its a lil frustrating and a lil fun at the same time but if he does leave his wife and kids for you all that goes out the door it will not be as fun as it was an the excitment and attraction will fade for some reason people want what they canr have and as far as his money goes how muh of that well you see one she takes him for all he has cuz he left her for another woman i mean child support alone will make someone go broke
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reader, girl79  +, writes (30 June 2009):
Well how long is it going to take for you to leave him once he leaves his wife? Most of the thrill goes away once you get what you want and once you get it you find out it's not what you really want to begin with.
Find someone available, or if you like being the other woman then stick to being the other woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): You deserve a rich boyfriend?
I'm sorry but what gives you the right to deserve a rich boyfriend..?
Why did you even mention that? Because it makes you sound like a goldigger..
Doesn't the fact that he's married tell you to stay away? How would you like it if he was your husband? My guess is you would feel really heartbroken.
You usually have sex in his car? Wow romantic..
It sounds like this guy is using you for sex and nothing more.
Get Rid Of Him and get yourself sorted out.
Please.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 June 2009):
 Sex in his car??? How romantic. Knock off this nonsense immediately. He will never leave his wife for you. You will never find happiness with this guy. This is a dead end street. Oh and one more...you aren't the first and you sure as hell won't be the last bit on the side. Wise up chickie.
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