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writes:I love a boy since previous year, he loves me too. The problem is we have never seen each other. We are in contact through mobile, now he is visiting my city and want to see me but I am very nervous because I am not so pretty as he thinks about me. I told him that I am not so pretty but he thinks I am joking because my voice is very sweet so he thinks if my voice is so beautiful then how beautiful I would be. I didn't hide anything from him from the very first day of our relationship. I told him everything about me but he is not ready to accept that I am ugly and now I am afraid that if he saw me he will definitely reject me. I don't know what to do. I am very upset. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, princessjasmine  +, writes (30 June 2009):
exchange pictures beforehand! Why havent you done this already?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): You should always exchange photos first. Don't believe a person when they say "I don't care what u look like" because that is a downright LIE. Unless you have been talking for YEARS AND YEARS and fall in love then that is a different matter. I suggest sending him a quick photo before meeting in person. If you are rejected in person it could make your first meeting quite awkward. Go with your gut!goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Don't get nervous dear. Its just because its the first time you're meeting. don't get upset as you have a great asset- your voice. I too have a good voice which drives my boy crazy. My looks are of ok type. Its very good if you told him all the truth about yourself, I am impressed. Maybe your boyfriend would be talking about the inner beauty which I must say you have. True love doesn't bother about looks but its the connection between two souls. So be confident, put a smile on your face, dress up properly and flaunt your feelings after him. i am sure it will definitely work and you will rock.
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 I agree with Klara. What if he isn't the greatest looking guy in the world? Maybe you guys should exchange photos before meeting one another - so you both know what to expect.Online dating is a very dangerous thing, and I personally would never do it. So be careful of who you trust and who you meet.If you guys love each other then that's that. Your looks aren't going to change his feelings. Be confident in yourself - that is a beautiful thing. Dress up nicely - do your hair and make up and just be yourself.I hope everything works out.Take carexxx
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