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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 ive never had sex but i know a lot about it. im 14 so yes it will hurt becuz ur hymen will break, itll hurt to pee after, u will prob bleed cuz most girls do, and ull be able to walk. no worries. have funnnn :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): i was 14 when i started having sex with my boyfriend im a guy im 15 now it did hurt a bit the first couple of times but it gets better it will feel really good you will be able to walk i dont think youll faint make sure you use a condom.
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): it didnt hurt me first time i loved it! all these guys who say it will hurt first time are wrong as we are all different.-it may hurt some it may please others.-you may bleed or you may not depending.-if you faint it will most probably be with pleasure(if that is what you experience)-you will be able to walk
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): well u need protection and it will hurt but the pain will go away if u dont want him to go fast tell him u might bleed im 13 now but i lost my v card at 11 and i regret it so if u dont want to do it with him then dont and dont do anything u will regret good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Some people it hurts first time some people it doesnt it will most likely hurt a bit and bleed a lil some people dont bleed first time and it is very unlikely you will faint but anything can happen and you most likely will be walking after sex i dont see why not you may feel more pain if you are too tensed so try to relax and take it slow the first few times intil you start getting used to it taking first time too fast may increase first time sex to hurt more and you may bleed more so just take it slow
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reader, daletom +, writes (30 June 2009):
The article (and responses) in the link from "satindesire" is well-done about the physiological and technical aspects of intercourse.
The fact that you are asking these questions indicates that you are probably not mentally and emotionally ready for this.
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reader, citic101  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 You should wait your to young but if you must make sure he wears a condom .... NO CONDOM NO SEX ! I am a guy and cant say how much it will hurt but yes it will
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male
reader, Jibbles +, writes (30 June 2009):
I'm sure you're going to run into alot of people who will try to talk you out of this course of action. Unfortunately in todays times teens are more sexually active than married adults. First thing to remember is you only have one first time. Is this guy the one you want to remember for the rest of your life? do you truly love him? having said that as a male i have deflowered my share of girls and none have ever complained about pain or problems walking, and not all women bleed. so the answer to your question is it depends on the guy. if he is considerate to the fact it is your first time ,is gentle, and takes his time You should be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): IF you are so nervous, why do it? But anyways i doubt you will faint, there will be pain, you will bleed a bit.
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female
reader, Sweety Pie  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 Are you a boy or a girl... as your listed as male.Either way, Id say wait as your only 13, you may feel grown up but looking back you will see how young you really were :)xx
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