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anonymous
writes:HiWell I'm in two minds about this event and I hope someone can help me...I had a party the other night and was putting friends to bed in spare rooms at the end of the night when a guy friend of mine insisted he sleep on the floor in my room. I was tired and a little drunk so I let him and got into my bed. He then immediatly started pestering me for sex (I would've never considered him to be that kind of guy so I just kept saying, 'Your my friend not happening and your drunk etc.' then finally ignored him when he wouldn't stop . I was nearly asleep twenty minutes later when I felt him push into my bed he began by rubbing my body and trying to wake me up but I ignored him..thinking he'd give up and think I was asleep, he didn't.I kept moving around so he couldn't touch me but when I was on my back he pulled open my top and fondled and sucked my breasts then he kept rubbing my panties and whispering dirty things to me finlly putting my hand on his erect penis. He held my nose to force me awake and I jumped and yelled 'what are you doing?' he quickly got back on the ground and said 'why did you have your hands there?' 'lets talk about this' I realised he did this so as I would think I'd groped him in my sleep (hoping I would want to go further I presume) I ignored him and went back to 'sleep' and then again, he crept back into my bed later (thinking again I was asleep) and rubbed and put his arms around me.Now, I dont know what I was thinking by my actions, I didn't want him to do those things but I didn't stop him, pretended to sleep. I could've stopped him, I didn't. I feel like an idiot..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Thanks for the advise everyone!
I actually feel alot better after reading your posts and will definitly be talking to the boy in question..
He had no right and will be telling him so very shortly
thanks again :)
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 It was certainly inappropriate and a breach of the friendship, but as "satindesire" said, not rape. Your apparent limited lack of protest possibly led him to push, and he may again if given the opportunity. If you absolutely abhor any sexual involvement with this "friend" then make it known both in words and action.
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