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writes:Me and my Ex girlfriend were together almost a year, we split up recently and decided we wanted to be friends. Recently i've explained to her that i've had a bit of a drinking problem and i've been out of control. while at her house i wanted a drink but didn't want to go overboard. so i drank about half a bottle of jack daniels and called it quits. she told me if drinking was the only thing that made me feel better i should drink...well i finished that bottle of jack and got completely smashed to a point i've never been at in my whole life...i was so drunk i could barely move. the room was spinning and i was dizzy as hell. Well is started to get down on myself and berate myself and she came over to me (i was laying in her bed at the time) and tried to comfort me. one thing led to another and SHE wanted to have sex with me...that was the last thing i remember..she said i was very rough and mean with her and i didnt stop no matter how much she asked. I dont remember any of it and i swore i'd never drink again...it was the first time i've ever had that happen and its definitely the last. But its been killing me ever since she told me about my behavior. i've apologized and tried to make it up to her. i was just wondering am i as horrible a person as i feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): You're not irredeemable if you regret what happened and recognize the problem. You did something horrible -- that doesn't necessarily mean you're a horrible person.
Quitting drinking is a definite plan.
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