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writes:I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23, i am 13 weeks pregnant and have just found out he has been cheating on me.Because of my past i have trouble trusting people. A few things made me think that he was cheating like he took my picture of his wallpaper on his phone, he had a picture of a girl from work on his phone i know that he likes her and that she likes him. he started acting weirdly towards me and he started lying to me sayin that he got arrested one night when he was suppose to pick me up but he didnt but yet he had no proof of being arrested.so i decided to go down his phone and i found a text message from the girl from work saying that they have to stop what they are doin cause of the situation and they can be friends. i looked at teh date of the message and it was the day before my scan.it has really hurt me to know that he has cheated on me especially now that i'm pregnant, and that i am living with him.i don't know what to do cause i only found out this morning so he doesn't know that i know but i dont want to break up with him cause i love him so much, but i dont think i would ever be able to trust him again knowing that he is still working with this girl.can someone help me into what to do and how to tell him that i know.
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reader, lovnlife  +, writes (1 July 2009):
you are pregnant and you dont need to be put through stress or drama first off you should have taken it right to him when you found out you dont think about it you do it cuz you going to start thinking that it was your fault he cheated if you think about it long enough go to him ask him is he happy with and and how he feels about the baby and just start off simple but you need to make up your mind in if you are going to stay with him or not cuz if you are going to stay with him then why even confront him about it but if you are going to put your foot down and demand answers then you have to be ready to break up with cuz no man like being onfronted about something like that and yall gone argue and he might leave but honestly its better that way cuz you have to think about your baby what if he would have burned you and that could make your baby sick let me know how it goes
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reader, bailee +, writes (30 June 2009):
wow!well once a cheater, always a cheater!but i also believe in second chances.he's probably fooling around with other women because you're pregnant and he's bored. no offense. but it's how men seem to thinkk.most people would say to get rid of him!!they might also say you're too yound to know what love is. but my cousin, K, is seventeen and having her baby within a month. her boyfriend doesn't pay her as much attention, but he's still there for her. the smart thing to do would be to leave him because you are so young and he just wants to go have "fun"...but i'm gonna say don't do that.i thinkk you should cleverly let him know you know. don't flat out get up in his face about it, but don;t ignore it. set it up to where it seems like you're the one cheating if you really want revenge. or just kind of hint at it here and there. maybe bake too many cookies and tell him he should take the rest of them to work and share um with ohh whats her name...be mischevious.best of luckk---
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