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writes:Hi, i'm 15. So theres this guy whos 16. We started off as friends. just talking. he had a girlfriend. then he said he liked me as more than a friend. but meanwhile he was still dating this other girl. he wanted to cheat on her but i didnt let him. they broke up after a couple months. and me and him were still tight. we still liked eachother. then out of nowhere i find out hes dating another girl. he didnt even tell me. i found out from someone else. we stopped talking for about 2 weeks. but it was so hard not to talk to him every day. i was still in love with him. so we started talking again. next thing you know, he likes me still. but once again, he has a girlfriend. i hate to admit this, but i let him cheat on her with me. they broke up not too long ago. and i was waiting to be asked out. but now he doesnt want to date anyone right now. although he still likes me and wants to hookup with me. i trust him, but i also trust my best friend who is telling me he's playing me and hes a scum bag. i dont want to believe it, but are the signs there? well i have a couple questions:1. Is he worth it and will we ever become something more in public?2.Does he just want sex?3.What should i do?!!!!*also i think i'm ready to have sex. i want to, but i'm scared. because i'm a virgin. what do i do?
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reader, bailee +, writes (30 June 2009):
hah im sixteen :)
been there.
guys at this age are trying to get with girls to impress their guy friends.
they all are basically having one big conrtest to see who can "score" the most...
don't trust him.
i promise he's bad news.
there's no way that IF he ever does ask you out (which he probably won't) that he'll be loyal.
the only reason they dated those other girls is because they put out.
once you put out, he might consider dating you, if his friends think you're impressive.
and if they all find you impressive, and he does date you, he'll be running around with other girls behind your back.
just forget him.
you can flirt with him and play with his head, he'll hate it ;)
but don't go any farther than that.
and stay a virgin.
so many girls are doing it when they're fourteen these days!
and sure they're having fun now.
but here's the thing: guys like to have fun and sleep around with girls...but all the girls that are sleeping around...they'll never want to marry. so when it comes to the long run...know that if you've been messin' around...guys will be less interested in the future whrn they are finally ready to settle down.
and always trust your best friends over any guys!!
best of luckk---
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 1. Well if he cheated with you, while being with someone else, what makes you think that he won't cheat when he's going out with you?
2. I don't know about the sex part but he doesn't want to commit to one girl.
3. Move in the opposite direction, I agree with your friend, he's a player.
*Take your time with those things and do it when the moment is right, don't just give it away.
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