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writes:Well this is kind of embaressing..My boyfriend likes it when I go down on him, but it makes me gag! I don't know whats wrong with me, I think it could be the texture and i don't really like the taste either, I don't mind doing it with condoms though.What should I do, because I want to do it for him but I can't :(Help would be much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Antiseptic throat lozenges - best invention ever! (well, apart from lube maybe...) They numb the 'gag' reflex which makes swallowing so much easier.
Also, keep in mind that tongue action, licking up and down his shaft and balls, general adoring worship of the thing, and even your eye contact and facial expressions and vocal expressions will drive him crazy as much or more than just taking it all the way in.
And of course, the cleaner it is, the nicer it tastes. Tons of water is all you need...maybe start in the shower?
best of luck pet xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Hi, I also have this problem, I can only go down about a quarter on my boyfriend because I have a really small mouth. I try and use my hands to help me, because then I don't have to try and go further down. Focusing on his head helps a lot too. If you want to try and focus on the whole of him, why don't you try licking up and down him, and swirling your tongue around him? I do this and he really seems to enjoy it.
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reader, lexstar +, writes (28 June 2009):
this might sound daft, but honestly, take it into account!!if you act like your enjoying it, then you will begin to like it!i was like this at first with my fella, i wanted to, but, he'd told me that no girl had ever made him come from it, so when i was doing it, i just felt like it was a pointless activity. but he realllllly got turned on when i wanted to do it,do the more i went down on him of my own accord, the more he was turned on, this made me feel greatand the first time i actually sucked him off, he came. so be gentle, get him worked up loooooooads so its not as much of a strain on your jaw, get in a comfortable position, maybe kneel over him so he can finger you at the same time? (this is a great distraction, and is a bonus for you too =p)use your hand to massage the base of his penis, maybe venture elsewher. . . balls or bum? and focus on the head. . butterfly technique is fantastic, when he comes, either ask him to tell you so you dont have to taste it,or, as you knw hes about to, put the penis further back in the throat, make sure its at an upwards angle, and you wont have to taste it! straight down the throat, done and dusted! hope this helps babe! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): 2 words. Flavoured condoms.
I want to make my bloke happy too, but I'm really not comfortable with erm, how shall we say, fluids, in my mouth. Flavoured ones mean he still gets to enjoy himself, and I get to enjoy it too, especially since they bought chocolate ones out!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): perhaps suck and caress the top dont try and swallow the whole thing , you can use your hand .
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I don't go that deep but it still makes me gag :S
I don't find it discusting or anything, I want to, but I can't really because of gagging :(
And yeah he is clean, he baths every day..
I have a bit of an issue with textures of foods.. do you think that could have anything to do with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Does he wash his cock every day ? my girlfriend has the same feeling if its not a matter of hygeine then tell him its not your "thing" you dont feel comfortable sucking him , if he loves you he will accept it
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Kiss and lick him instead of taking him too deep.
You said you didnt like the taste, is he clean?
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reader, Tbonex  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 Of course he likes you going down on him. You don't need to deepthroat him and choke yourself(if that's what you are doing). but if you are not, maybe it disgusts you or you're just not use to it. I don't know. That's the only way I can think a person would gag by doing that(besides being disgusted) which is deepthroating or does he push your head down while you do it? Just be careful and don't use your teeth.
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