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writes:hi... I dont know where to start im in a really bad situation and its horrible and wrong and i dont know how to get this sorta thing out of my head and how to help make it better.... so The story... 4 years ago i met my 2nd cousin, I started to grow feelings for him more and more and thought that there was no way that he could feel the same way, because were cusions right..! Anyway that's what I thought.After we had gone out with our friends one night he stayed at mine because his house was a bit too far away from where we were and we started to play fight like kicking and punching each other then once we got tired we sat down to watch a film (it was really rubbish) we got bored of the film and went up to go to sleep, I dont have a spare bed and didnt want him to sleep on the floor so I said that he could sleep with me. We continued play flighting then he suddenly kissed me, I wanted to pull away because I knew that it is wrong because he has a girlfiend as well!!! but I just couldnt! Things happened and we did it all the way apart from sex, I wouldnt want it to go that far it would be even more weird! I know that he has feelings for me more than cousin love and that i wasnt going mad into thinking weather he likes me in that sorta way.... how can Ii move on from this? I know its wrong and our familly would disown us if they ever found out and chuck us on the street so it could never ever happen, what should I do? I will probably always have feelings for him but dont know how to hide them.. please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): well, I also experienced the same, having been falling with my first cousin even we only spent 3 months closeness with each other. I don't know if he felt the same way. He has a gf and I was so jealous with her, but I didn't say anything about it, I said that, that was the only girl I like for her but deep inside it kills me apart. I love my cousin but not as the love you give to your second cousin. God bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): If you're only second cousins its only sorta taboo that you're together. Your family might think its really weird though. If you are determined to get over it, then I say don't see him for a while and try to date other people. Its always possible to get over anyone if you have enough time.
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (27 June 2009):
 What you do is get yourself a man not your kinfolk and stay away from incest. Not only is it illegal but that's completely gross and there are way too many men in the world why pick your cousin? You really need to think about that.
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