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writes:I’m looking for general views and comments on my situation please.I recently had a one night stand with a married man. He has contacted me again and asked if I would consider a threesome. I assumed that he meant with him and his wife but he said it could be with a man of my choice and that his wife must never know about it.He made it quite clear that he wasn’t interested in seeing me again on my own but only as part of a trio. I have never had a threesome before and I am quite tempted to try this but I said no.Why would a man be prepared to risk his marriage and family for this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): what vibes did you give of........he is very brave to contact you again for a 3some.......do you have a reputation that anything goes. if you do, perhaps you should check your mirror and see whether you like that stranger staring back at you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): The guy sounds like a creep and its rather insulting to say he doesnt want to see you on his own but only as a 3some !
Why risk his marriage ? likes risk bored with his wife and kids etc having sex with the same person year fter year does get rather dull
I had a couple of 3 somes and they were great , twice with my ex wife in Hong Kong and once with a couple in singapore. so I wouldnt say No to the idea of 3 somes they can be very nice and there are lots of places on the net to find one if you wish but you were right to turn down this creep.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 My guess is that he's begged his wife to do this, and she continually refuses, so he's looking to you to fulfill this fantasy for him. I encourage you NOT to go for this, getting involved with a threesome is messy, let alone a marriage. So good for you to turning him down! That was a smart decision.
He sounds like a real prize (COUGH COUGH COUGH not so much). Ditch this loser for good (and I hope his wife does the same!). Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): The man has lost his mind and he is very unfaithful. Sure, participate in such a thing like that if you wish; but think about if you were in his wife shoes. Would you even want that? I know I would not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Because he has probably done it so much in the past, that he feels he can get away with it and isn't really thinking through the consequences well enough.
Think about it: He gets sex with lots of women, he gets to go out and gave all sorts of dirty fun that his wife will never even know about (that's what he thinks) and when he goes home, he gets a nice mean, warm bed and house, and loving family.
I don't believe he thinks he is going to lose anything. All he sees is what he's gaining, unfortunately, and I feel really sorry for his wife and children.
Thank you for saying "no" the second time.
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Who knows. Men (and women) do stupid things all the time. If they perceive that the risk is really low, that they'll never be caught, then it gives them a thrill to have their cake and eat it, so to speak. I think it's best that you turned this guy down. He sounds awful.
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