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writes:I am in love with my cousin after he broke up with me and started dating another girl. He's 3 years older than me. I love him. No matter what I try, I can't seem to get over him. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): Give it some time. The age difference is quite a bit right now. In a few years, he may notice you and you will be on a more equal basis. Right now, just enjoy being a young girl and having as much fun and learning all you can. Take care. Anh Tom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just can't stop thinking about him. He's always on my mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Ahh, ok, you are not "related" in that sense. Well, hon, all I can tell you is to not make a silly of yourself, because he may not feel the same way. He may just feel like a protective older brother (Anh). You are very young and you need to get aquainted with others your own age. You may say they are "immature", but you are not so mature yourself. You are being pretty silly, actually. Sorry, (em), but that is how I see it. Chou, em.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am adopted. From Vietnam. Not blood related. We were never close till like October '08. I barely knew him until then. And the guys in my town are so immature. The only people worth talking with are older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Well, hon, it is a pretty close family relationship...and he is a bit older than you. I have cousins that I adored when I was young, but, it was an infatuation thing. We were very close, as our families were. But, I grew out of it. You need to as well. And you will. Get more involved with activities that others your own age are involved in and make some new friends. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): goodness gracious. Where are ya'll from, Kentucky or something? You do not want to date your cousin, period! And if you had kids with your cousin, your kids would have a much higher probability of being messsed up in the head, not only from the situation, but from genetic problems. My advice, is to stay away from your cousin, find another boy who you like, or think you would, and try dating him... in order to get yourself over your cousin. Your older cousin was wrong for letting that happen...
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