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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I dated for three years, one of those years was our freshman year in college. After that, my family's business was suddenly not doing well, and I needed to come home, as there was not enough money for tuition. We broke up and since, he could not bare the idea of going back to the same school without me, he ended up joining the air force, and I wanting to study french, ended up studying in France. I ended up back in the states close to my family on one side of the country and he close to his on the opposite. I wrote him letters everyday I couldnt talk to him on the phone while he was in boot camp. I went to see him at his graduation with his family and he told me he wanted to marry me, but I was not ready for that. I knew I was too young, needed to finish school and that I did not want to be a military wife. I loved him with all of my heart and wanted to marry him, but knew I should wait. I saw him for a total of two weeks that entire year... not even, and the following year, three weeks, not even.Though I loved him, I was sad, lonely, stressed, and he...being the same and in the military, stuck at a base, he turned into such a jealous bf, that I could not handle it anymore. On top of that, he became careless. He did not even send me anything for my birthday the last year we were dating. So, I broke up with him again, but we continued as best friends, talking everyday. When I started liking a very handsome guy, that brought me flowers, went out dancing with me- I decided, why not...I have been dating that handsome guy ever since.. but I am pretty sure I am going to break up with him soon. My ex is still in the military and has a girlfriend who is deployed in another country. I know he still loves and misses me, and I have felt like I needed closure. That I have to see him again. Should I? (even if this means, i must take a plane and fly to the other side of the country) Or should I wait for him to come to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): He has a girlfriend you have a boyfriend why do you need "closer" sounds rather closed to me. move on you know its finished
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (27 June 2009):
 Do you like drama? If so, then by all means do that. He has a girlfriend now so respect that and keep your distance and don't cross any boundaries. If you were to do that anyway you'll seem kinda desperate for him. But, it depends on how you feel. He may not feel that way about you anymore. Good luck with that.
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