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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm sixteen and I live in Cardiff, I've had boyfriends but it's never felt right and therefore the relationships have never lasted long. I'm not sure of my sexuality but not just because of the boyfriend thing, I think, well I have been attracted to girls. No one knows and I don't want them to know until I know for sure. How will I know for sure? I would probably even then feel to embarrassed to approach a girl. I know it could be hormones but I'm not sure anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, jadeybabe116  +, writes (28 June 2009):
You're not alone. Women have always had the ability to experience very fluid sexuality. You're not alone. It's extremely common for a woman to be attracted to another woman. Attraction can be based on both gender as well as the connection you feel with the person as an individual. This is the age when you're going to be more aware of your sexual feelings and yes, the hormones play a part. Don't be afraid to explore that. If you find yourself into a girl, ask her out. Approach her like you would a guy you liked - be confident and casual. Best of luck.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Maybe guys in Cardiff arnt very nice ? perhaps you havent met the right guy. Is there a gay and lesbian phone line in cardiff I think they are free and they will offer support if you are confused. your still finding your way in the world and its normal to wonder where you fit in. also normal to be curious about your own sex . lots of young women go thru the same thoughts as you , your not alone
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