A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I know this guy that says he has a hard time finding someone to be faithful to him. As a matter of fact I dated him. He said his wife cheated on him. He was still living with her when I met him. This is my question, why should he expect someone to be faithful to him when he is still living with her and still hasn't gotten a divorce? That's not fair. I could see someone needing a little time to get things in order, but expceting someone to be with him and wait for years for him to get comfortable just ain't right. How is that fair to share his money and home with his wife and you wait for years. I waited on him so many years more than 3, but I ended up dating someone. We didn't date long. He was still living with the wife and kick me to the curve after this, but he waited to he played with my mind almost another year making me think we were getting back together than turn around being mean. I have lost a lot of respect for him.It's now hard for me to believe that he loved me the way he said he did. I think love gives aleast one chance especially when they themselves are not right.
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