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writes:Out of curiousity for all you men out there-If you met a girl and are seeing her for a month, and you text her everyday and you ask all your friends (that are friends with her) about her and you mention her to your close family, are you likely to see other people? That's basically what's happening to me. I'm really liking this guy and I've only known him for about a month (we never had sex, just fool around). He told me I'm one of the funniest girls he's met and I always have a good time with him. The first time we met he told me he thought I was gorgeous (we were both tipsy). We're always joking around and he always says 'this is mine!' He told one of his friends that I intimidate him because I'm smart. I don't know him very well, and I can only know how he feels towards me by the above things (Who's going to ask someone they just met how they feel about them? No one! hah)Now that I'm starting to grow feelings for him, I'm always wondering how much I mean to him- if I'm just a fling or does he really like me. So here's my question to all you fellas, from the above- is he likely to be seeing other people? (Or wanting to see other people?) And if you can't tell, what are some things to do to tell if he likes me more than a fling?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): being a man n having something similer happen to me with my misses when we first met we text met up did kissed this went on for over a month but whenver she went out with her friends it was in her eyes freedom to do what she wanted it werent till i talked to her let her know how i feel n that i wanted a relationship that she told me how she felt n agreed to strat dating...
but i know she wanted me to make that move now being the person i am was a hard step im not very forward etc n thought she should ask me..
so what im saying is maybe you should talk to him explain your feelings ask him hes either ready or hes not.. if he needs time then its down to whether you want to wait or trust him etc..
for me if she had said im not ready for a relationship i would have moved on but agian even then once your there its still down to trust
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reader, Stephen Stewart Nixon  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 You asked for a mans view so I will give you one. If your relationship is going to work it will but you need to be patient, men generally take a while longer than women to get bitten by the love bug. If you are too pushy you might scare him off before he is bitten. It sounds like he is into you so let nature take it's course. As for seeing other people, well until he commits to you he is not breaking any rules. If the whole situation is to much for you to take then you will need to ask him how he feels.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (27 June 2009):
Im not a guy btu I will answer anyway because I have 'experience' in this type of situation.
I dont think anyone can say if he is or wants to see anyone else based on his behaviour towards you. In my expeirnece, sometimes, a guy who texts you non stop and mentions you to his close family, this can mean he really is interested and only wants to be with you. However, on the other hand, some guys are 'smart' at playing with girls, and they know what a girl has to 'have' in order to make her say yes to any type of a fling, so they give her false hope, by doing these things, making her think he wants more, but he may notreally.
I think you have to talk to him about it, its been a month so thats a fair amount of time to wait. You have every right to know where you stand with him. I suggest you stop foooling around with him until you know how he truly feels. If he wont make a commitment to you then hes a loser and you should leave him!
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (27 June 2009):
 If he is really interested in you then his focus will be on just you. Keep him interested but it should be a 100/100 type of thing if you both really like or want each other.(Sex doesn't mean somebody actually likes or wants to be with you). Don't be fooled by that if it were to happen. Notice his actions and what he does when he's around you or not around you. Just observe and study him in your own way and you should find out sooner than you think. And yeah, if I'm interested in someone I just am. I'm not confused and I know what I want; whom I now have.(I'm happy for that). The first person I have ever went out with, I got married to. Whatever it was, made me want to keep that person and stay with them. Love, you could call it. and she said yes. So good luck on that issue.
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