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writes:I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying he stopped and left. What should I do now? Shall I call the police?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): this is not okay.
tell your parents i know its hard with stuff like this talking about it with your mum or especisly your dad. and i think you should tell the police.
what kind of a boyfriend does that make him. he forced you into something you didn't want to do.
no one should make you do that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): HELL YA CALL THE POLICE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): tell your parents , you shouldnt be dating a 16 yrs old boy
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reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 You should definatly call the police but first you should tell an adult you trust.
It was definatly NOT ok for him to do that to you if you did not consent to it. You need to tell someone as soon as you can.
hope this helps.
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reader, Vickett0410 +, writes (27 June 2009):
 yes, you definately should.
telling your parents is the definate first step.
i hope your okay.
and dont ever feel pressure to have sex. sex was meant to be an act of love and was meant to be like a conection. and if you dont want that yet then that's fine and your boyfriend (ex i hope now) should have realised that x
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reader, Tbonex  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I definitely agree with old guy.
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (27 June 2009):
First off, Old Guy; sounds like you got good sense. I will completely agree with you. Secondly, WTF? That kind of thing makes me mad and I don't even know you. You should really tell your parents about this and have this no good, manly, wanna be grown up little boy, can't get anything so he tries to take it, punk sissy who doesn't respect your decisions, arrested. If he wants to have sex so bad and can't wait, he can go to prison for doing something that low. He doesn't care about you and by doing that it shows he just wanted to have sex with you and that's it. I literally would beat the living you know what out of people like that. You don't do that to someone. I hope you're ok put that guy away so this doesn't happen to anybody else by him. I know you're probably scared but you really should call the police and tell somebody you trust to help you. Let us know of your status so we can give you more advice and let us know that you're done with that punk and he gets what is coming to him(I'm not telling you to kill him).
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Can you talk to your parents? They should know what's going on before the police show up at the door. But yes, it would be completely appropriate for this jerk to be arrested, so he'll never darken your doorstep again.
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