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writes: he just stopped texting me and im assuming we're broken up. its painful to just act like nothing happened and move on. i know it will not be a good idea to contact him. all my friends say wait for him to contact you, but im in pain. what do i do?? do i wait one more day? do i just realise its over and suck it up and move on??? this is painful. please advice.
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 June 2009):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question It is SO hard to do anything. I feel like he made things better for me. Like having him around made me feel less lonely and that i had someone there for me and just felt like i had something to look forward to. But i gotta admit that im not surprised bacuse lately he seemed like he wasnt into me as much anymore. In the beginning he would do ANYTHING to see me, then he started telling me he had no gas to meet me half way, which i know that if he REALLY wanted to see me he would've. I knew it was just an excuse. He went from texting me at 8 am and trying to meet up with me first thing in the morning, to sleeping in and just going to work instead of trying to spend the mornig with me, then he went from texting me as soon as he woke up to texting me hours after waking up. I thought that since we didnt see each other as much during the week he would at least try to spend the weekend with me but he didnt even text me yesterday. It is so painful, this really sucks.
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (27 June 2009):
Ivanna22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe last time we were texting was 2 nights ago. We were talking about schools and I said to him "bristol pike community college is only ten miles away from my house". Then he didn't responde, i assumed he fell asleep or something. I woke up the next day kinda late at around 130 pm assuming he was already awake and had texted me to say good morning or something, but surprisingly he didn't. I started wondering and worrying. Then i thought he probably went to work and will text me after he was done which was at around 7 or 8. Later at around 830 pm and still nothing and my heart started breaking and i got that sickening feeling in my stomach. Then time just kept passing and i realised he didnt text me because he didn't want to. I didn't wanna text him because he is not the type of guy who will tell you straight up "listen I don't think this is working" he's a chicken. If i texted him asking he would've been like oh sorry i didnt have my phone with me and he wouln't admit he just doesnt want to see me anymore. I hate that about him. Anyway, he also told me that if he didnt want to be with me he would tell me and not just ignore me, but he obviously lied. He's also full of sh**. I've only known him for about a month and he told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and blah blah blah only after a week of talking to me. I'm confused. I deleted his number from my phone list so i have no way to contact him even if i wanted to. It's hard not knowing. I know you guys tell me to not wait around but its so hard to move on unless im sure him and i are done. I cant believe he is not talking to me anymore which means he doesnt like me anymore. Its hard to believe he really doesnt wanna be with me anymore.
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reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I know this really hurts when someone you care about ignores you, but maybe it is not on purpose? Now I'm not trying to make excuses for this guy but it may be that he doesn't know he's upsetting you by not texting you. Pretty much every guy is like this, they don't understand why girls get annoyed when they don't contact them.How long has he not contacted you for?If you really want to try and speak to him but if not it would be best for you to try and move on.Hope this helps=)
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (27 June 2009):
No, don't wait one more day. Don't wait on him EVER. Do your own thing and get on with your own life. He'll notice that you're not paying attention and contact you eventually. I agree with your friends, let him contact you. There's no reason for you to keep trying to get a hold of him. It's only going to keep giving him the upperhand. I know it's painful, you're not the only girl that has had to go thru this, I have too in the past. Don't be too eager to talk to him when he does call you again. Play it cool and act like nothing happened, something along the lines of, "Well I just figured you needed your space." Don't talk to him about it until later...as in a few weeks later after you talk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): he started the word I love u I wasn't have feeling to him but when I stared to and when I need him when everything was so bad in my life he didn't even call. no single moment passed by without thinking of him and missing him believe me I know the pain you have. he has shown his real face. while I was considering his feeling he was living his life without me. why he said I love you if he wasn't mean it. Iwon't call him I won't text it him who threw me doesn't deserve me. I'm good without him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): I just lost my lover about a month ago stopped texting emailing having any interrest. I assumed the worse "NOT INTO ME" Well we had a civil breakoff and now I wonder did she really want us to end. She calls my cell, blocked caller and I think it's cause she wants me to make the first move. I won't she is the one who said enough, so I fell it's now up to her, her lose is my view. Oh, I miss her like you wouldn't believe but pricible is sometimes more important. We all deserve respect.
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