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writes:I've been dating a guy who used to be bisexual, he says its in the past and that it was just a phase in his life and i believe him when he says it but sometimes i feel that its not in his past, like when we try to be intimate with one another, he always says he just doesn't feel it, and i don't feel any sexual chemistry between us. I want to believe he's completely through with that part of his life but i'm not sure and he still keeps in contact with the same crowd that turned him bisexual. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, JSBach  +, writes (27 June 2009):
He might be telling the truth, maybe he isn't attracted to men any more, but that isn't the point. If neither of you feel the chemistry between you, then you aren't really made for each other. Either the spark is there or it isn't - you can't will it to exist. I'm not going to spell it out, but I think deep in your heart you know what you should do.
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