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30-35,
*omance_boy18
writes:hey everyone, im in love with the girl of my dreams. its kinda funny cuz we dont do drugs, drink or party and were both virgins. I was at her house today and we did touch but never below the belt, then before i was about to leave she felt below, i did try to stop her but the feeling got to my head and i held her. the reason i tried to stop her is cuz i want to wait until shes 18 and until were both ready (shes 17 and im 18). i feel that i was responsible but i dont want to push her away, what do think i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Talk to her about how you feel. If she touched you first, this means she probably wanted it. But if you didn't, you need to tell her that you want to wait until she's 18. If she loves you, she'll understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): I think you should explain things to her. as to how you feel and ask her how she feels as well. You have your say but she has hers as well. Ofc this might back fire and she may love you more and want you more...but hey, I think talk about it exactly how you feel before she gets the wrong idea of being pushed away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Well, in a way, the guy is the one who should be the "most responsible". It does not always work that way, though. I would do some explaining and let her know how you feel. I don't know the "legalities" in Canada, but I do think eighteen is the accepted age for decisions concerning sex. I am not advising you to wait till she is eighteen...just to have sex, but you both need to cool it a little and see how things go between now and then. I will tell you this, romance_boy18, girls this age have many changes to go through for the next several years. You may be her "one and only" today, but, a few months from now, it could all change. So, be aware,..and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Tell her, that is the only reason why. And make sure she knows that is the truth. Then... she will probably try to convince you to give in, and do otherwise:) If you want to wait until she's 18, tell her, to wait until her birthday... it wont push her away knowing that you love and respect her, that you are waiting for her, and you want her to wait for you. If anything, she will love that, and want you even more...
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