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*analinda
writes:what is happening???I met this guy in january, he has the most bright smile i have ever seen, we just click, or at list a thought, he ask my help for a project he wanned to start, and we start to spend a lot of time together, he call me for what a thought were stupid reason, and we spend ridiculous amounts of time just working in very simple stuff, like for hours in a paragraph, you get what i mean, we laught at each other, went to the movies together, so eat dinner or luch, to sports events, we star algo to exersice together,a met a lot of his friends, for me everything was perfect, afert almost four months he finally said he liked me and then i became the most happy woman on earth, a few days after he start officially goig out, he went on a trip and ask me to take him to the airport and to pick him up, when he came everything was perfect again!, he was the most sweet man on earth in every aspect, he treated me like a princess, then like 4 days after he came hi just pull back, didnt call me for two days, then he said he had a lot of work to do, stoped doing exercise with me or anything whit me, he was just avoiding me, he was calling for a week and a half, then he just stop, and eleven days after he just came back (calling) talking about trivial stuff but not about us, then he dissapear for two more days, i was so angy a didnt pick the phone when he call for 2 days, and when i picked up he told me he was calling me etc etc and why i didnt pick up the phone and that his cat was sick, and if i could go and help him, i went there and he was acting like nothing happend like if we were just friend, and i just could help it, and i just ask what happend before, and why if we were friends he didnt told me what was he thinking!!!, he told me we was taking time, and that he realize he didnt wanned to be with me that tusday and wensday because he didnt want a serius relationship ( the days i didnt pick up the phone), that really hurt me a lot!!!, because he is trying to blame me it is really hard for me, he try to keep me like a friend,afer the talk that night he invite me to dinner and to see a project he is working onm, but i dont know if im cut for it! (the friend), i love him so much!, and i just want him to remember how much fun we used to have, and that im a good loving, caring person!!, i don't call him or anything, im just afraif he wont call me anymore want day!, and im just going to lose him, please any advise on what should i do?, any hope he gets back you thing?, did i made a mistake telling him that we were friend before everything and that he should told me long bofore what he was thinking and not letting me in limbo???, im just trying to see what i did wrong, what went wrong????, help i fell so sad Reply to this Question
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reader, Nanalinda +, writes (28 June 2009):
Nanalinda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! this is really hard for me, but i know you all are right!, I will stop taking his calls, because is to hard for me!, and I know that is a friendship that wont work for me anyway!!!!, I just feel bad because he didnt realize that before!!!, I feel used!!!, thank you again for answering!!!!
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reader, tonik  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 That is very sad but the truth of the matter is you must move on, there is nothing wrong you did, feelings are feelings, that guy did that for the best, rather than pretending to you, which would hurt you even more if you would have to find (imagine telling your parents/friends about someone who doesn't really love you) it would be more hurting, i personally think you should move on, and just accept that relationships have ups and downs, there are plenty of men you can find who will treat you like a Queen. Just keep on searching, if you two were meant to be, then you will see, other than that, move on. Trust me it does happen to lose interest on someone and there's nothing you can do. ----xx--- xx---
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