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writes:Does anyone have any tips on how to meet a man (not online dating please)?I broke up with my long-term partner over a year ago and since then I have had one failure after the other. There has been Mr emotionaly unavailable; Mr I really like you but my ex wants me back; Mr (too) long distance and Mr married man!I'm 36 and starting to wonder if there are any decent single men out there my age or am I just doing something wrong? Everyone else seems to fall into relationships so easily and quickly!
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 June 2009):
When your in that situation it does feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel but honestly your mr right is out there, you just havent found him yet.
Its different for everyone, some fall straight away, some take years, some never find what they are looking for because they go the wrong way about it.
Try the simple things, going out with some girls and being yourself, dont look to hard or youll attract the wrong ones. There are lots of things available, singles nights and things like that, try new things and see what suits you youd be surprised who attends these things, in more ways the one! Who knows it may be a pleasant surprise?!
When you go out simple be yourself, that way you will attract the right ones for being the most genuine, its the best way to start a solid relationship, which we all crave whatever the age.
Dont let yourself be taken in by anything, put your guard up and only let him in when you feel its right, dont forget the past just learn from it.
There is someone out there for everyone, its just finding him thats anoher piece to the ever growing issue.
Nobodys perfect, but he is out there. Stop looking and maybe hell come to you a lot sooner.
Best of luck
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