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writes:i didn't get my period this month and i'm starting to really worry because i think i made a huge mistake. i had a threesome with a friend of mine and her boyfriend a while back. when he was inside of me, he used a condom, but he prefers not wearing one and he usually doesn't with his girlfriend. she is on birth control and i'm not, so he did stick himself in her unprotected and he also came in and on her. it was pretty messy-- even on the outside of her vagina too. i was highly aroused by watching this, so i didn't have much going through my head but excitement when she starting grinding against me after he withdrew from her. i mean we were like hardcore grinding vag to vag. i could feel all of his and her fluids covering her down there. i'm now worried that some of his semen got transferred from her to me. i can't imagine why else i would have missed my period and gotten a faint line on a pregnancy test i took at home yesterday (even a faint line means positive, right?). i haven't had sex since then and i had been going through a dry spell before that too, so i'm more than sure this is when i got pregnant (if i am pregnant. i still am not totally trusting the test i took).i am against abortion and i'm in college and don't have money or time to raise a kid right now. if i find out i'm pregnant for sure, do you think i should offer the kid to them? it's really their child, not mine. they are a few years older than me and i think they could afford it. she only works part time. he has a high paying job. they've never talked about having kids, but they've been together a while now. maybe they'll be excited about it? maybe they'll help with the doctor/hospital bills? what do you think i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): I think the person who wrote the first response is spot on; the chances of you being pregnant are very slim, judging by what you have told us.However, it is not entirely impossible to be impregnated through such circumstances.I would seek confirmation of the test before you think about putting any plans in place. That is the most logical step in my personal opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Take another test or go to the clinic and before you do anything make sure you are either pregnant or not. then speak with your best friend before you do anything else. the chances that you are pregnant are slim.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Well it seems all three of you are at fault in some way or another. If you are pregnant, I don't think you should have to pay all the bills alone.
As for should you offer them the kid, never hurts to have a discussion. go for it.
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