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writes:Okay this may sound weird but here goes:My boyfriend likes to go down on me but a lot of times I don't let him because I can't stop thinking whether or not I taste okay down there. It makes me feel really weird. I shower every day and clean myself well in that area, shave some and the part I don't shave I keep it trimmed and tidy, and make sure I shower before sex which helps with the way I feel but I still can't stop thinking about it. Sometimes he will want to do it at my place after we study and says not to worry about showering so I never let him go down on me then even though he wants to.I feel this way because I have heard that guys really don't like the way women taste and that its nasty. I don't wanna be nasty and I hope im not, i mean I don't think I am but you never know. My ex never went down on me because he said he had a bad experience with it with another girl and it really doesn't appeal to him at all.So how do I get over this? I do enjoy the feeling but my thoughts kinda ruin it, and I wish I could just assume that I taste fine and he really likes it. I mean I should as I have good hygiene but like I said above you may never know.Thanks for your help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): Chill out, relax and enjoy the tongue ride my dear. Like most people here have mentioned, he obviously enjoys going down on you for a reason. He loves it, loves the way you look down there and obviously, there is no odor issue. It is just your mind. Always make sure though, for peace of mind, that you are nice and clean. I love going down on girls but will never do it unless they are straight out of the shower. Once it's nice and clean, man or man, I devour it. Love it, love it with a passion and so do they!
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reader, dan026 +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I'm sure you taste fine otherwise he would not want to continue to go down on you. I love giving oral, but I have been with one woman who smelled and tasted disgusting! I literally had to stop and excuse myself... talk about akward. I don't know why but every other girl either tasted and smelled pleasant or had no taste or smell. Don't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): I am sure you smell and taste great your boyfriend seems to think so if he didnt he wouldnt be going down so often One of my girlfriends tasted of strawberry and another salty each girl tastes a little diffrent but delicious.
Ask him how you taste and if he loves your taste when he says you are wonderful hopefully you will relax and let hit get to work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Of the 5 women who I have ever been with, one had a bit of a bitter taste, while the others didn't have any smell or taste at all. None were objectionable at all to me. I have even given my wife and 2 other women oral the morning after we had sex and it was fine. Doing it is not nasty at all.
My wife has told me that not many of her past boyfriends would give her oral. My opinion is that guys who don't like it have more of a mental problem with it than any smell or taste problem. It's just the idea of doing it that bothers them. Perhaps some of them did it once with someone who didn't keep herself clean.
Just let him do it when he is in the mood and don't worry about how you smell or taste. If he likes it a little smell or taste won't bother him at all and he and you will both enjoy it. Just relax and consider yourself lucky that he wants to make you feel good.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 If you want to know. CHECK. It will tell you that for a lot of women there really isn't that much of a smell or a taste.
Even if there is, remember that smell/taste is a matter of association. Does fish smell bad? Rotting fish does, but normal fish smells like... fish. If you associate fresh fish with a tasty food source, then the smell will be a good smell.
You associate the smell of your vagina perhaps with your pee-pee. He associates it with your most feminene spot. Or maybe he just doesn't care. He may not even smell it.
He wants to go down on you, so whatever your taste or smell, he doesn't seem to mind. Enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): If he continues to go down on you, then you obviously taste fine. As long as you keep your vagina clean && fresh then you'll be okay.
Sometimes I worry about tasting bad when my guy goes down on me. I always ask him how I taste. He says I taste okay cause I keep my vagina clean!
You especially shouldnt worry if you shower before sex. Just make sure you scrub yourself well && you'll be fine
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reader, demon2004 +, writes (27 June 2009):
 Heres the thing if the guy doesn't like the way you taste he won't be going down there or wanting to go down there. So I would say you must be fine down there.
So please quit worrying about the little things. I may turn off to the whole thing and then make him miserable because he likes to go down on you.
Hope I helped you out.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I bet you taste great. Seriously if he wants to go down on you then let him. I hear that there are some guys that don't like it but for the rest of us it's one of the best things going especially if you make suitably appreciative noises and wriggles.
As a rule of thumb, if he's down there for a couple of minutes and then looking to move on then maybe something isn't tasting so great but if he stays down there then everything is fine and you can relax and enjoy.
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (27 June 2009):
 You obviously taste good enough if your boyfriend wants to do it. As long as you really aren't a nasty person down there, if he wants to, why not let him?
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 Your fella wouldn't be doing it and wanting to do it if it doesn't taste good my dear :p
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