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writes:i've just had a baby with my current bf but i don't love him anymore and i feel trapped we've been together only a year and everything has moved so fast i dont feel he's the one 4 me plus his family are horrible!! but i dont want our daughter growing up with out him plus!!! im still inlove with my ex! who still loves me too
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reader, jones15 +, writes (1 July 2009):
jones15 is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah i would love 4 us just to have a break but he's the one who brings all the money in i couldnt afford to live without him :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): Your daughter does not have to grow up without him. Just because you do not love him, doesn't mean she cannot love him. Remain in touch and civil, but don't force yourself into a lifetime of loveless unhappiness for the sake of anyone. And I think Stephen Stewart Nixon needs a nickname, what'd you think? Aunts and Uncles on this site often make references to each other and this screen name will make it difficult.. so I say.. SSN.. haha looks like social security number.. ok how about.. "stew." ~SY.
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reader, Stephen Stewart Nixon +, writes (27 June 2009):
 You only have one life so don't waste it in a relationship with someone you don't love. Your baby can still see his/her dad without you having to live with him for the rest of your life. Go and find a man you love and who loves you. You don't mention whether he still loves you; if he does you will need to be gentle.
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (27 June 2009):
I find myself in a similar situation and it is crayzi because you dont want to make the wrong decision because of your child, I believe you should take a break let him know you want to concentrate on the child and not deal with relationship issues you will only be hurting yourself and the child and even the father by being in a loveless relationship, He should be a father if you are with him or not but if he isn't willing to father his child just because you are not together then get your child support and be with someone who will accept the responsiblity of your child. Look the bottom line i think you should be honest i wouldn't tell him that you are still in love with your ex. Honesty is always the best policys in this case and if his family treats you badly and you dont love him if you ever did then you need to get out dont stay for the child kids know what is going on and you want a happy fulfilled child. Good luck
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