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writes: ok, so i have a question. Don't laugh at me. haha I'm not very experienced so I don't know. Ok, would you know if a guy came? I was giving oral and he was fingering, and I'm pretty sure he didn't cum, but I just want to make sure. I'm kind of freaking out that I might be pregnant. We didn't have sex and we were never naked, but I read that if a guy cums and touches himself, and then fingers, that you can get pregnant from that. I'm pretty sure he didn't cum, and I don't think he touched himself anyway, but I just want to make sure. I'm pretty sure I would remember if he came, right? Please let me know ASAP. I'm really scared. = /And thanks in advance for the answers. = ]
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Thank you so much for all of your help. i really appreciate it. I'm really stressed out and this is helping a little. = ]
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Well I'm really glad you've decided that you won't do it again.
It is much safer and more fun in my opinion to just have a good, clean time with no alcohol and lot's of food.
Goodluck!
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): thanks so much. I know it's not a good excuse, but I was actually really drunk that night (it was at a party) and I've never done ANYTHING like that before. The most I've done was kiss someone. That's why I have absolutely no idea about any of this stuff. haha It was pretty much the worst night ever and I am gonig to make sure I never do anything like that ever again. Bad experience. = /
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): I included in my post that yes, you would've noticed if he has ejaculated which is the same as saying "cummed."
Yes there are sperm in precum and no it is not the same things as the what comes out when he ejaculates. Precum is what comes out during the time that you're pleasuring him. It's much thinner and not the same colour as the final product. So precum can get you pregnant and therefor, you should always be careful and use protection no matter what you're doing.
You also need to stop doing these sexual activities until you know exactly what the risks are and exacly what's going on. I'm not as good at this as some aunts, but I think if you send Satindesire a private message, she can tell you everything you could possibly want to know.
Take care of yourself.
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): oh and one more. I was reading about precum... would i know if he let out pre cum? is that like the same as cum? OMG this is so stressful. = /
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): ok that's good to know. haha ok, another stupid question. (again, don't laugh haha) Guys only release sperm when they ejaculate. Would I have noticed if he ejaculated? Is that noticible like if a guy were to cum? Or is it not noticible and just happens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): It's pretty obvious when he cums. It's a big globby mess and if you were giving oral, then you would've tasted it and felt it all go down your throat.
There is a possibility if he touched his sperm and then fingered you taht you could be pregnant, but less likely if he cummed in your mouth.
Don't freak out over it. The possibility is minimal especially if you don't think he orgasmed. Just be safer next time and get a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks to be sure. But I don't think you really have anything to worry about doll..
Take care.
~Sy.
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