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writes:Hello, don't really know where to start. I live with my fiance who is 2 months pregnant (we have been together for 2 years now) and our 2 kids 2 years and a month old and 7 months old(the eldest isnt mine but going through adoption) but with our youngest child she suffered from a form of post natal depression. Then our eldest daughter had an accident and got burned and needed skin grafts which made her condition worse. Ever since she sees a counsillor and suffers from a lack of motivation and wild mood swings. she barely gets out of bed before midday (i have the kids) and when she does she blows her top over nothing at least one=ce a week she is kicking me out my flat and going off with our kids i'm trying to cope to keep the family together but after suffering constant abuse for months its wearing me down so much im pretty much relying on my family for support and to sleep on their sofa please help me im in a desperate situation should i stay or should i leave?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (27 June 2009):
if she's goin through depression has she gotten any help?
the councillor is obviously not working. maybe she needs to see the doctor? or seek alternative therapy for her depression.
its not really her fault she is treated you this way, the hormones cause this ripple effect.
its not fair on both of you.
whether or not u shud stay or go depends how much you love the girl.
do u love her enough to stand by her and support her through her illness? or merely do u feel its better to walk away and leave her in that state?
remember she is pregnant, and ultimately the other kids too are involved here. do what is right. in this case it would be to stick with her, talk to her when she is calmer, and try and seek alternative help through a doctor.
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