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writes:I've been with my girl for 6 months now and things are great. But lately she has acting a little shady. she hides her myspace page and has been keeping her phone to herself a lot lately. she just recently confesed that her ex of 5 years has been calling her, but she does not answer. She also accidently called me his name. So what I'm asking, is she still talking to him or some other guy? Maybe even cheating on me, Or am I just being paranoid and insecure?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): There's simply no logical reason why she should be hidng her myspace page and keeping her phone from you - in fact in this modern day and age, hiding your 'myspace page' and 'keeping your phone away' specifically are the modern day signs of cheating. There are loads of stories if you read around where people's partners have been cheating and they have been hiding the mysoace page and keeping their phones from their other half.
I'm afraid she really is cheating. Your gut is probably right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): I would speak to her and tell her that you are a little jealous and is it unfounded ? you love her and you want to be honest and talk about your feelings
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reader, lovesweetangel2 +, writes (27 June 2009):
Ya, maybe she is talking to him. But cheating is a whole different story. You should probably ask her about it. I know as a girl, it drives me crazy when my man doesn't trust me, in my opinion why are you in a relationship if you can't trust each other. I suggest sitting down and CALMLY ask her about talking to him. If she get defensive you know there is probably something more but don't accuse her. Just ask something like "Hey, you know I trust you but with your ex calling you lately I'm worried you may leave me for him. Have you been talking to him or seeing him at all?" If she assures you the answer is no and doesn't get too offensive about it you need to believe her and drop it, however if she gets very deffensive you should probably see if you can do some detective work! Good luck and hope this helps!
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