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writes:Well, I really like this boy, who used to go to my old school, but I left and I hadn’t seen him for about three years or so, but I always remember that he was nice to me at school. So, I Went on skype one day and he started talking to me, he came on a lot and always said hello and started conversation with me, he also gave me a lot of compliments (I got the impression that he was really interested in me). He said that I looked different and as we got talking after a few days of conversation, he said I was really nice and I said that I liked him too. Then, we played truth and dare on skype and I asked him if he fancied me and he said he did. Even though we hadn’t seen each other for a long time in real life and then I said if you could go out with anybody who would it be and he said.. Me! Anyway, after a week or so of talking on skype, he asked me if I wanted to go round to his house, I think he was curious as to what I was like now and to see if he fancied me in a way, and if we could maybe get together (by the way he told me he was single on skype! :)So, I was pleased to go round as I really liked him and he seemed very sweet on skype and I had good memories of him from my old school. So, I went round to his house and I had a good time, we got on well and had a few laughs, but I don’t know if there was any chemistry between us.However, as I hadn’t seen him for a long time, it was just like talking to a stranger and he was very hard to read. I did fancy him a little bit, but I am very confused as to if he fancies me back as he was very hard to read and a little shy. I got the impression he was treating me as a friend.. but maybe this is normal as it was our first time meeting after a few years. So, I don’t know if he sees me as a friend or more, but as will just say this so you can understand how I feel, “I would like to go out with him”. Lol So, it has been a few days since I went round and he has only been on skype once, but he didn’t stay on for very long and he didn’t ask me out or anything like that, he just asked me what I had been up to. So, I don’t know if he is just thinking about me for now or if he didn’t like me in that way and I think that he may have written me of as being just a friend for now. I'm not sure if I met up to his expectations, (I don’t think we really flirted with each other), but it was hard as I hadn’t seen him for three years and I didn’t really know him anymore, but I did really like him and I have been thinking about him recently and I do know that I want to go out with him. I don’t know what to do next, as I expect that he probably wont make a next move as he made the first and boys don’t really like to show their feelings, but I don’t want to act too keen and put him off me. I almost feel as if the fire has died between us since we met in real life, as he isn’t on skype as much as he used to be, but I really don’t want it to be this way atall, as I still really like him but I dont know if he feels the same.I would like to meet up again, but we live quite far away and it isn’t easy to arrange. I am also very busy and I dont want to waste my time if he doesn’t fancy me anymore, I wonder if he isn’t sure as we only saw each other for a few hours, but anyway I am very confused as I know how I feel, but don’t know about him. I also dont wont to scare him of or look to desperate, So shall I just call this whole thing off for now and wait for him to act, but I am not sure if this is a good idea as I dont just want to let him walk on by, as I am always thinking about him, If you know what I mean!So, please give me some advice! I’m kind of new to all of this stuff! (Do you think that he is just playing it cool or he isn’t really interested)?Thank you so much and sorry this is so long, I just want to get it of my chest :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): I think he lost most interest in you, I think you should come on to him first (that should work).
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