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writes:Hi i'm asking this question because i'm in a situation that i've never been in before and i'm not too sure on what to do or steps to take. I met this girl, who I took to my formal and she took me to hers, we were just friends, and had a mutual understanding about that fact. Then we kissed eachother, whether it was meant to happen or not i'm not sure but it did and ever since then I've been very confused as to what she wants etc. We've been on one or two dates since the kiss and everytime I would kiss her and then wait for her to kiss me but it doesn't happen. I joke around with her saying that she isn't 'game' but she assures me she is. Is her lack of affection through shyness or something else? We both don't want relationships and want to have fun but I can't understand her which is pretty annoying. How do I get her to warm up to me but at the same time keep it casual?Trivia-Who's rather confused
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 June 2009):
 Well, I've heard about folks with love relationships that begin (usually) in school and go for a year or many more before ever becoming the least bit sexual, but I've not experienced anything like that in my life. One marriage lasted 20 years, and there were two shorter ones, but all relationships in my years (I'm about 60) became sexual rather quickly - usually within a couple of dates and no more than a month. To each their own way.
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reader, trivia +, writes (27 June 2009):
trivia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks DoubleM, I think i might just play a bit of her game too I think. And if nothing eventuates I'm out. Trivia
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 June 2009):
Sounds like some game-playing going on to me. In my day, I'd simple take the gal out one more time and "put the move on." If no go, then I'd be movin' on. Well, that was back in the (my) day, but I'll bet it works today. DoubleM
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