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51-59,
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writes: When I met the guy that I used to date, he told me he loved me more than anything in the world and he would love me as long as he was breathing. I do know that as time goes on people sometimes change. Our relatoinship was damaged due to the fact that he was in a marriage and living with her when when I met him, but said the marriage was over and he was getting out soon. Soon turned into years and I eventually dated someone else for a short while. I tried to restore my relationship with him, but had no luck.There was absolutely nothing I could do to get him back. No matter how much I apologized or how sincere I was. Anyway he ask me to give him the ring back that he gave me. It was a ring that he didn't even buy. He found it. I gave him the ring back,but this is the thing. He said he still loved me. I know people break up but why would you want to take something back that you gave out of love.He treated me very bad even after I apologized. He would use anything that he could turn around and make it look like I was being unfair to him. I would text him at normal hours in the day and might not hear anything until the next day. He would text me at late hours when he knew I was sleep and then say that I ignored him. Anyway back to the main thing, I feel we are too old to be taking things back like we're kids. He said he gave what he gave out of love and I know I gave the items I gave out of love. I didn't ask for anything back and I don't want anything back, because I loved him enough to give him those things. He said that he was not materialistic, but I think He took the ring back because he knew it was worth a lot. I'm kind upset about someone else may wear the ring that was once mine,but there's nothing I can do about that however though I would like to give him all the other things that he bought, which were mostly clothes.Sometimes, when people hurt me I trash things they give me, but I really loved him and would like for these items to be given to someone needy. The problem is I know that I won't give them away so I want to give them to back to him and let him get rid of them.I really regret being in this relationship ,because of how things turned out ,but I guess I should have never gotten in it until he was divorced.I feel if I do the right thing God will bless me with a good person and all the things that I'm giving back to him. Do you all think I'm going too far wanting to give the items back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): please move on dont waste your youth on this person , there are a lot of nice single guys out there for you. Forget about the ring he sounds like a rat. nothing lasts. make happines your number one goal
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