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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok, I have known this guy for years, but we lost touch. We found each other again before Xmas, and have been chatting regularly via email and text message since then. He texts me every day, good morning, asking me how my day is going etc and often throughout the day. Now, we haven't been out, and he has never called me. He flirts a little, and has suggested we do things together, but as yet, there is no sign of action. I have fancied him for years, and I know he used to be attracted to me. We always used to flirt with each other when we were younger, but were too scared to ever actually take things further - there were many times we could have got together.Does he like me, or is he just being friendly? Does he think I am not interested in him, as we never got together in the past? We flirt a lot, but... I'm just confused!Guys please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): I'm a man and I have been in similar situations. Many men are just fearful of rejection. They want to hear real committment before they commit themselves. (Its the truth) They can not bear the thought that people might find out they tried and got rejected. They stick around flirting and acting friendly until they recieve an open invitation to something more. Just be honest. His inability to say things in fear of rejection is common. If he doesnt respond to that you will know its just friendship. Or if you have the same problem the it will stay friendship anyways. But let me be clear.....if you care make sure he understands or you may end up something on the side. Let him know its more than that or its nothing at all
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