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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Here is a question for the women. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. In that time I always sent her flowers and choclates. Which I know she loved. Because of her hectic schedule I never knew if she would be there to get them before they went bad. We live in a desert 100+ degrees. I havn't done this for 2 weeks now. Just recently she had been returning my texts, or seems like she wants to talk on the phone a lot. So because I know she is coming back in town from a work related trip tomorrow I made sure to send flowers and chocolates to greet her when she gets home from her long flight. I did this for 2 reasons; 1st because I wanted to. 2nd to see if that was the problem. So my question to you is would something like that change how a women treat someone? and Do I have a good idea with this flower thing?
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reader, beehive +, writes (27 June 2009):
As a girl that only gets flowers on special occasions, I think that your actions are great as long as they are heartfelt and not just some ploy you use to try to endear yourself to your gf when there isn't much else to your relationship. Anything action or thing that is bought with affection is lovely. Since it seems like you send them because you want to and because you care, I think it is great. Your gf is lucky. However, perhaps, judging by your inquiry, they are making your gf feel like you are coming on too strong or perhaps she feels that you send them only because you are trying to buy her favor. What is one girl's prize is another's burden. Do what comes from the heart and everything will work out the way it's supposed to.
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reader, luvisnot4ever +, writes (27 June 2009):
 I personally thing you shoudl do what your heart desire without looking too much in to it. You are doing a nice thing for her if she takes that for granted or doesn't appreciate that then she is not for you anyway.Lov, relationship should be like river or a poem. It should flow naturally. These days we tend to maniuplate our feelings and they just seem too manufactured. I hope this helps.P.S If only I followed my own advise. :)Good luck
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