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writes:Hello everyone,Right, there is a boy who I have met who I really like and would just like some advice as how to keep contact with him. I saw him for the first time at a debating group I am part of. I didnt speak to him but added him on facebook and have had a couple of quite flirty conversations on there. I spoke to him at the debating chamber a couple of times in the next two weeks and he is really really nice. I was then going out one night with my friend and bumped into him and had a really long conversation. He asked for my number at the end and texted me 10 minutes after he had let. The only thing was was that on the text as well as saying how good it was to bump into me he also asked for my friends last name. She is in a relationship already but I worried a bit that he might fancy her, do you think so? He did ask for my number after all and perhaps he wanted to add her on facebook?? We had a flirty text conversation where he was trying to get me to go to his and he kept persisting until I really said no that I couldnt as it was early in the morning!!! Now it is the end of University year and we have both gone home for summer. How do you suggest I stay in touch. Weended by wishing each other a good summer on text. Thank you for any help!!xxx
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reader, Lydia28 +, writes (16 July 2009):
I texted him a couple of times and he replied. But then I sent him an email a week ago and he still hasn't replied. Do you think this is because he isn't interested? Should I send him another one or does that look pushy? I don't understand why he would suddenly change from texting and flirting to not wanting to talk - unless he is playing hard to get? What do you think?
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reader, Louise282 +, writes (28 June 2009):
Louise282 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your help. Do you think maybe I should leave the next text or email for a week or two in case he think I'm being a bit stalkerish?! Perhaps he did quite like my friend when he asked for her last name but the fact that she has a boyfriend anyway makes it slightly better!! I won't be able to meet up with him over the summer which is a shame but as soon as we are back at Uni do you think I should try and arrange to meet up? xxxx
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (27 June 2009):
 just carry on texting. arrange to meet up some weekends when your both free, if your too nervous then take a friend with you each. speak on the phone and keep talking over facebook. get to know him more and things will turn out just fine. good luck x
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 June 2009):
Its strange that he asked for your mates last name, thats slightly irrelevant if he wanted to progress with you, that leads to a series of questions only he knows the answers too, it could just be he was doing his homework on getting to know your mates and who you socilise with etc.
Texting is a great way to keep in contact but if you want things to move forward then tell him how your feeling before its too late, ask him to meet fa to face, he obviously likes you, you have things in common so its takes an edge of the risk of this failing. Sometimes you have to be honest with yourself in order to find happiness.
Talk to him and dont let something that could be go, for all the wrong reasons, you have questions the best way forward is to ask him, build something up.
Best of lucl
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