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writes:HiI am a athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with someone else.I feel horribly left out. I think I am ready for a love life but, it is nonexistent to me. I would like to feel what sex is like, because everyone goes around bragging how pleasurable it is, and I am still embarrassed that I am a virgin (to both kissing and sex). A lot of my friends are dating people in collage or that are far older then them. Can someone please give me advice on this?But I am worried that I will never find love, I go to an extremely conservative Christian high school (even though im Atheist), and I know I won't find anyone there. I go to UCLA in Fall 2010 to major in film and digital art, and even then I am still worried about never finding a girlfriend or love there, because I have had no experience with romantic relationships. Sure making friends is nice too, but I think its just time to find someone. Also, for the last two years, I have been in depression, because of this and the incident that caused my depression 2 years ago, I tried to ask someone to a dance and they told me to "go f**k off", and its been eating away at me ever since. :(
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reader, alishamarie08 +, writes (27 June 2009):
Wow odd answers but I'll tell you high school life is so hard. And I will tell you most of the people that are your friends won't be after high school. Thoughout collage you'll have so many opportunities with girls and relationships so don't worry about it! Maybe join a frat house its a great way to have new friends that will know a lot of other friends and girls! I hope it helps!!!xoxox
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reader, Brelynn +, writes (27 June 2009):
 Sounds like you are trying to group up to fast, everyone goes at there own pace. Things will happen when they are ment to happen. As a older girl who has just started a new relationship with a younger man I will tell you one of the biggest turn on, and what made him stand out to me was the fact he was a virgin (at sex and kissing)...he didn't rush into the dating scene. Once you relize that you are on the path you are ment to be on....everything will fall into place.
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reader, luvisnot4ever +, writes (27 June 2009):
 You are only 17. You have a plenty of time to figure out sex and love. I am sure at your age you are dyeing to have butterflies for someone and romance but believe me now is the time for you to figure out your life and goals.
There are 2 kind of people. 1 that chase after things and 2 they are so good at what they do and who they are that things come running after them.
Also, If one person rejected you for a dance. I don't think you should let it effect your pride. You are giving too much value to this person that's not even important. Hold your head high and some day soon love will come gind you when it does, you have to be ready for it.
Hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): First of all I would bet that most of your friends are just talk when it comes to sex. That being put aside do you want sex or love? If you want sex go to a brothel in Nevada. It is safe the girls are tested on a regular basis and you get to have sex. If you want love well that is completely differnt. From wanting to spend time with her to the kissing, and sex is a lot better because then you ar making love. But as a guy I could say they both have their good points. The last thing you want to do is to lead a girl along in just tring to seperate her from her panties. She could turn out to be the clingy type and trust me you don't want that. That is my advice. If you want a movie advice I highly recommend "American Pie" rent it or buy it great movie and your question is answerd there.
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