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14 and female and I think I like one of my girl mates, just now sure how she is about me.

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Question - (2 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ell-help writes:

I really liked this boy whos really recently let me down i wont go into the life story of it as i dont think its to necessary, but theres also this girl who came to our school i think around after or just before christmas and weve got good friends, shes bi-sexual and i found out from one of my best mates she said she fancied me when she came yo our school andi kinda like her but shes hung up on her ex who she wants to get back with, we was doing this thing were on lunch in a big circle of all my mates passing the thing from mouth to mouth kinda kissing ish and i moved places cos a dude i didnt particular want to kiss joined the circle so i ended up next to her ( she was a good kiss) but a few times going round she went "RIGHT TONGUES NOWW" and looked at me but the bell had gone and everyone was like were all okay ahah but when i was having problems with some of my friends i was talking to her about it and we ended up being on the topic of me thinking im bi and she found out i kinda like her. i have no clue if she likes me or not but i kinda wanna experement with her but if i got off with her that would be my first and i dont want it to be in front of a bunch of people.

How can i get her alone sometime and know if she likes me or wants some fun along those lines so when i read back through that i guess i am bi or confused or curious, somthing like that, anyway thanks

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A female reader, well-help United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2009):

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well-help agony auntthanksss (:

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (4 June 2009):

Who agony auntYour question has been here for 2 days with no answers so I will try to answer parts of it. But I’m old enough to be you grandfather and I don’t think you would want to discuss all the things in your question with him, so I will leave those things for the next person to answer.

First off, please work a little harder in English class at school, especially with punctuation and run-on sentences.

“i guess i am bi or confused or curious, somthing like that”

You are confused; most teen agers are at one point or another. Don’t worry, it is all new to you now but you will figure it out with time and a little experience. Whatever you are, that is what you should and will be.

“How can i get her alone sometime and know if she likes me or wants some fun along those lines…”

Don’t worry about that either, for now. Just try to be a good friend and spend time with her. Do the things girl mates do together in your town. You can also do the things teenagers around you do on dates. Eventually it will be time for “fun along those lines.” You will know when the time comes because you will not have to ask about it on the internet.

“I really liked this boy whos really recently let me down… shes hung up on her ex who she wants to get back with… i have no clue if she likes me or not… from one of my best mates she said she fancied me…”

Get used to all that. Broken hearts, not knowing who likes whom, is all part of figuring out this romance business. If you are like most teenagers you will have a few broken hearts along the way. Keep in mind this current girl may or may not be the one for you. As long as you are not going steady with someone (have not made a commitment) there is no reason why you can’t see a few different people. Note this is seeing them AND NOTHING ELSE.

“would be my first and i dont want it to be in front of a bunch of people. “

Good plan.

“…i wont go into the life story of it as i dont think its to necessary,…”

Thanks.

Best of luck and hope this helps.

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