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writes:I met the love of my life just over a year ago now, both felt an instant attraction to each other, but he's engaged so we became "friends" instead. Over 6 months we fell in love with each other, very deeply, without even realising it was happening. He was in deep shock because he thought he loved his fiance. I was in deep shock because I didn't want to ruin someone else's life. He re-assessed his life and realised he loves his fiance "like family" and that I am his true love. I had to leave the country. The last time we saw each other was the most agonising experience of our lives, couldn't even cry when we said goodbye, just shook with the pain.We've both discussed that we are the love of each other's lives and will end up together someday.So, my question is, do I wait patiently for him to sort out his life? Or start seeing someone else and risk hurting them when He and I end up together?
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2009):
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Has he broken up with his fiancee yet?
When you answer that....you will know what to do.....if you answer is no he has not..then what are you waiting for? Opportunities and the love of your life will be passing you by while you wait and wait and wait. Time spent waiting is time wasted...move on sugar.
He isn't breaking up with his fiancee while you are out of the country.
I'll agree with older sister on this one, get it out of your head that he is your forever. His FIANCEE has a much better chance of that happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Yeah you have a chance to move on there, you dont need to be in contact with him, your well away. So take this chance! Find other men that your attracted to, play the dating game! Your too young to be bogged down with what ifs!
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