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Is there any way of finding a random stranger to do it with?

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Question - (2 June 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend has asked me to have a threesome and im fine with it cos ill try anything once but he wants me to ask one of my friends and im not really confortable with the idea of it being a friend so i was wondering is there any way of finding a random stranger to do it with?

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A female reader, alishamarie08 United States +, writes (17 June 2009):

Try adultspace.com

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009):

If you drive around the red light district then yes - there you have your answer!!

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A male reader, Beingblack United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2009):

Beingblack agony auntFirst of all, I have to admit that I have participated in group sex in the past.

I was young and single.

From a male point of view, having a number of women on the bed, willing to satisfy your every whim is a massive buzz.

I must also add that I never 'planned' these things, they just happened, right people, right time, right place.

So I am trying not to be too hypocritical.

From your point of view, are you really willing to risk your health and your relationship by inviting a complete stranger into your sex life?

I get the impression that it will be your boyfriend, you and a random girl.

While it might be a kick for your boyfriend, how will you feel about seeing him getting sexual with another girl?

I know that at your age I would have been gutted if I was in a relationship, and had to watch my girl with one of my mates, or some random guy.

Give it some thought.

If you are really determined to go through with it, make sure that your boyfriend has no input whatsoever in your choice of girl. When these things are planned they very rarely work out well for a 'relationship'.

Best of luck.

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (2 June 2009):

Anastasia agony auntTotally agree with RhiannaX. You might want to check gumtree.com

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A male reader, carthagodelendaest United States +, writes (2 June 2009):

Your boyfriend doesn't want a "random stranger." He wants your friend. If you find him a random stranger, the threesome will be:

Him

Your friend

Random stranger

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (2 June 2009):

GrimmReality agony aunttry the internet...you are here already. Im sure you can go to Craig's List or Myspace and find a stranger to swap body fluids with!. I am sure it's one click away?

I just want to ask are you sure it's what you want? At your age, are you mature enough to handle this without any animosity, once you witness your man pleasuring somebody else?

I have my doubts

Are you gonna be comfortable with him penetrating someone else in you presence? Your "I'll try anything once": spiel is the words of someone who may be agreeing to this fore all the wrong reasons.

I'm not saying dont do it. I have done it before, but I was mature enough to handle any potential emotional fallout. Just make sure this is really what you want before you go searching.

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A male reader, koenig United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2009):

Do an internet search for "adult dating".

Have you thought about what this could do to your relationship? Bringing another person into the bedroom can really complicate things.

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A female reader, Rihannax Spain +, writes (2 June 2009):

Rihannax agony aunti completly understand that and it would be alot better todo it with a stranger cos you dont know them and its more of a turn on knowing you dont know them.

go on websites for this, theres some ones where you meet people ecspeciali for this.

or you may know someone that likes this 2?

hope this helps

x

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