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writes: I work with a girl, really attractive and really nice. I talk to her on days when we work together and whatnot. The only real problem is that she's 5 or 6 years older than me (i can't remember her age). I am nineteen years old. I really have a thing for her and I can't help it, I work with other girls that are just as attractive but I really like her. I've never even attempted to get with a girl that much older than me, the oldest I've gotten with I think was about a year or two older. Like I'm a part-time worker, and she works full time, her life has basically started, and I'm going to be in my second year of college, it's so conflicting but I really like her a lot. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): There are so many things that stop people finding the right partner, so you shouldn't stop a little age gap like 5 or 6 years stop you two from getting together if it feels right. You might find that she has qualities that girls of your age don't have. When I was 20 I had a girlfriend in her mid thirties, and it was such a relief after crazy, frantic teenage girls to find a girlfriend who preferred to stay at home, put her feet up and have a cup of tea rather than spending all night at a disco. If you like her, date her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Every relationship I've been in has been with a younger man......the biggest age gap was 14 years. After being together for awhile, you forget all about the age difference. Besides, 5-6 years is not all that much difference. Go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): If you really have a thing for her...why let age stand in your way. Age is more a state of mind than the actual number!
I hope that makes sense to you!
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reader, F-ing Old Guy +, writes (2 June 2009):
Are you planning on getting married, or do you both just want a fling? If it's the latter who the heck cares? In general men are behind maturity wise so a long term relationship may suffer, but if its a booty call rock on young man!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (2 June 2009):
You should date her.
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