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*arole4
writes:My question is a little bit uncomfortable and embarrassing for me to ask, but this is what this is for anyway, right. Well, my boyfriend is convinced that I cheated on him because he observed excretions. I have not been unfaithful at all. What could this be and maybe it's even some kind of guilt reverse for him. This hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): You are within your rights to have excretions - be glad you do. As for him being suspiscious on that basis that is totally ridiculous and insulting to you. Unless he is paranoid or has other reasons to suspect something and he has checked your underwear etc for evidence you should ask him to not say it again. Being accused of things relentlessly is abusive behaviour and should not be tolerated. Tell him what you are prepared to accept and if he continues being abusive you will be over.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Hey Carole4, Sorry love but is your man 12 or something. Does he know that women get discharges of and on, It is part of our makeup as a woman. How the heck does he know you have a discharge?? Does he go checking your knickers after you take them off??C'mon!!! I find this very strange...don't be embarrassed to ask it. Your boyfriend should be embarrassed to ask a wonderful faithful woman like yourself his question of unfaithfulness.Maybe you are right, it may be guilt reverse....chat with him, let him know that is shakes the trust between you a bit for him to question your loyalty...and call him on if he is cheating.You might get your answers you need.Hope this helpsAna
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