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writes:hey, im not exactly planning on rushing into sex just yet, im 17, and im proud to still be a virgin, ive been with my boyfriend now for almost 6 months, and im not stupid.. i know sex is going to happen soon, and ive heard most people bleed on their first time, me and my boyfriend just enjoy cuddling with a movie, were not rushing into anything.. im 17, hes 19, were both virgins, theres many years to come yet for that stuff i know! but we've dont a few things sex wise, hes poked me twice. and i will admit ive enjoyed it. but i never bled.. i dont mean to sound horrid, but his fingers went quite far... if i havnt bled through this, does this mean my 'hymen' isnt there? and i wont bleed through sex? thanks so much for reading, hope you understand what im asking x
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reader, hemé'oono +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Losing your hymen does not mean that you won't have pain during sex. I lost my hymen through very very deep 'fingering' because I was also a 'virgin' when i got married. I had done things but never penis/vagina. However, when we had sex for the first time it was very painful...and actually it was very painful for about a year. Some women have a very tight vagina and just like any other muscle, takes some getting used too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh thankyou guys! fiona, he used two lol. i use tampons too, someone told me that could break it. but thankyouu so much :) much apprieciated xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Not everyone bleeds during sex, and if you do bleed its not going to be a lot. Don't worry about it,
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Don't worry about it, by the sounds of it your hymen must have broke doing sports or whatever. I say this, especially because you used the pleural "fingers". At least you can expect no pain during your first sexual intercourse - which must be a relief.
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reader, niki20  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 believe it or not you hymen can rip when dping the splits. some women loose theirs and dont even know it is gone until they have sex and it doesnt hurt thay bd and theres no blood. you dont have it anymore but your still considered a virgin (ppl sometimes freak that its ripes omg im not a virgin anymore:/).
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Yes you probably wont bleed hymen must be gone
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