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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so here it is:I've known my best guy friend sense we were both 7 years old.. which makes 10 years. I've secretly liked him ever sense we started going to middle school. He still lives right across the street from me. He called me last Friday telling me he's going to stop buy for a half hour because he needed to tell me something. He told me he leaves to bootcamp for the Marine Corps at the end of July.... and that hes been having feelings for me for quite awhile. He also said he wanted to tell me this now after all these years because it would kill him to not have told me sense I'm not going to see him for awhile. I was shocked and mad and confused all at once. He said he wished he had told me way sooner, but then he said if I didn't feel the same way it would ruin this whole 10 year friendship. Obviously I told him that I had felt the same way.. the day after all this went down he asked for me to be his girlfriend. And still, I've told him that question is on hold. Don't get me wrong.. I am absolutely way happy that he has confessed sense I feel the same way, I'm just way confused on what to do. I mean, I want to be with him.. VERY MUCH. But then I leave for National Guard at the end of August. Should I be with him until the time comes? Or should I still be with him where ever military lives takes us? Being with someone is not being states away from eachother.. but sometimes it has to be.. right? I'm just too confused, please help? THANKS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): I think you should go you own way. Both of you are going to be experiencing a whole new world. As a former military man I can tell you that temptation is around every corner when it comes to new recruits.
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