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writes:okay, so recently (about 11 months ago) I moved to a new town. for the first 9-10 months I was here I never knew anyone, so I pretty much just worked and did whatever. Then about a month ago I decided to go to a party with my little brother, just for the heck of it, turned out I had alot of fun and met some new people. Since then I have been hanging out with them, going to parties, etc. A couple of weeks ago one of my new friends had a house party (her parents were away, you know how it goes). We ended up playing our own variation of kings cup. It was a lot of fun and I found out I can drink a lot of hard liquor before getting drunk :P good to know lol. Anyways, there was this one guy there, lets call him... alex. Any time "alex" would pick and a card and had to hand out drinks, he always ended up giving one to me, and watching as I drank it. In turn whenever I had to hand out drinks, I would give him one. Any time I talked he would always kinda look at me out of the corner of his eye, even if he was talking to someone else. That night when I got home he was ALL I could think about. He's not conventionally good looking, but he's cute, and sweet... I was sorta falling for him. Now we'll fast forward to last weekend,... there was a bonfire party, and I was bored, so I decided to go. To my surprise "alex" was there. That was only the 2nd party I'd seen him at. The girl I had gone with decided to leave early, so I was sitting on the tailgate of some guys truck by myself when he just randomly walked across the party and came to talk to me. He offered me a beer, I told him I didn't like beer all that much, so he offered me some of what he was drinking (monster and vodka I think it was), asked me how I liked it, and then told me to have some more. Eventually he wandered off. Later that night we were talking again, and I was telling him about how when I was a kid I was in the hospital a lot. He just randomly reached out and hugged me, and maybe it was just me, but it seemed a little longer than a friendly hug. One of my friends was calling me so I left. Later on that night there was some creeper hitting on me, and he wouldn't lay off, I was getting VERY uncomfortable when he showed up, but his arm around me, and said "hey, we're together... f*ck off!" I looked up (way up, he's about a foot taller than me) smiled at him and whispered thanks. His mom came later that night to pick him up, pissed him off, and he left so I didn't get to say goodnight =( that didn't stop me from thinking about him tho. So, I've only really talked to him/seen him twice, but I think I could really like this guy. I'm not usually the girl most guys just talk to/do that stuff for, so I think maybe he might like me to, but I'm not sure. What do ya'll think??Also, there is another girl, when anyone asks him he says he doesn't like her like that. They've been hanging out for 7 months, and he's given her a few hickies :P but they aren't dating. She says he's just a friends, so I don't know. Should I wait it out and see what happens (she is sort of one of my friends), Give them a little longer to work it out. or, if you think he's interested in me, should I let him know I'm interested in him??Thanks in advance, xo adelaide ox
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reader, local_celeb2011  +, writes (3 June 2009):
My advice.
I would ask her what her intentions are with him. Don't do it in a "hey I want him" kinda way, make it a more of "just wondering". Than, if they have no potental of dating I would talk to him and maybe hagout with him soberly just to make sure the drinks didn't influence anything. After you get to know him and if you think you all have a mutual atraction then I would ask him how he felt about you and take it from there. :)
Hope my advice helped.
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