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What can I do to stop obsessing about my teacher?

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Question - (2 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *itty_3 writes:

I have a question, and it may have already been asked, but here it goes:

I was walking down the hall going to lunch and it was pretty empty except for this one teacher coming towards me. I looked up to smile and be friendly (because you never know who you'll have next year) but his eyes were focused elsewhere; he was blatantly staring at my chest.

I will admit that I was showing a bit more cleavage than usual (my tank top had been streched downward under my dress), but still, it was weird; I'd never had anyone stare at me like that before.

Now I don't know what to think or do. He's a teacher at my school -- a young one at that (25)-- and he's engaged but now I see him around school all the time and we always kind of look at each other. I think I'm becoming obsessed with him.

What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

OK, fair enough. In any case, he is one man (almost certainly among many) who noticed that you're an attractive woman. It doesn't mean anything more than that.

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (3 June 2009):

kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

kitty_3 agony aunti wasn't though. i'm not like that...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009):

You were showing off, he noticed and paid you the compliment of appreciating. Nothing more. Don't think anything more about it -- there's no future there.

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