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Sex in the water

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Question - (2 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *akota94 writes:

my boyfriend just moved into a place with his friend and they have a pool. well my boyfriend wants to heve sex in the pool. well it sounds fun and exciting, and would definately be a new experience for me...but I'm kinds nervous. I have been out of town and haven't been able to get away and get birth control. I don't want to get pregnant. I need some help soon!!!! I get to see him Wednesday. I'm inexperienced in having sex in water..can I get pregnant from it..do they wear a condom or what ??? :( also he wants to do it in the shower also sounds fun but wit do I do then tooooo?

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A female reader, dakota94 United States +, writes (3 June 2009):

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thank you for the info...I've heard to wear a condom I was pretty sure that was true. and yes I'm gunna wait til I get birth control to try anything out. thank all three of y'all.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009):

Look, I'm with Ana on this - wear a condom! It is a massive, huge, gigantic myth and misconception (excuse the pun!), that you can't get pregnant when having sex in the pool (or in water). You certainly can! In fact. I read somewhere that the chlorine may in fact reduce the effectiveness of the condom. So, for more protection I agree also that using an oral contraceptive pill is a better bet.... you may have to wait to experience sex in water, but isn't this better than the alternative of falling pregnant?

Good luck!

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (2 June 2009):

Anastasia agony auntWear a condom both in the shower and the pool.

Pools can irriate you as well with the chlorine in it and whatever cleaning stuff they use. So just be careful.

Should be okay though...but wear a condom...did I mention wear a condom.

Hope this helps

Wear a condom.

Ana...wear a condom

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