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writes:ok, i dont know how to go about this. but i am 15 years old and possibly pregnant, all the signs add up and tests were positive. and im terrified. not that my parents might isolate me more than they already do. but knowing the man of life, may have to leave me. cuz he is 18 years old and him having sex with me will send him to jail. i dont know what i should do, i dont belive in abortions and i know he's the one for me, no matter the age, it aint nothing but a number. we both love eachother, and i dont how i can handle the baby on my own especially if i will have no support from my mother. what should i do? is there anyway of him not going to jail, or the amount of time he'd spend there. is there any way out of this hell hole, where i can actuallly find hope, and joy again.
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reader, dontjudgeme1 +, writes (3 June 2009):
okk i was goin throw this same thing ; i hadd a postive test and most of the symptoms girl u are pregnant im currently for months pregnant= 16 weeks and i found out at 11 weeks the 1st thing u shud do is go to the doctors and be for sure and if u are the next best thing for u to do is tell a adult u trust but the best thing is to let ya mom kno ; by the way my babies father is 19 years old and since i told him i was pregnant we are no longer together bcuz he dont want kids and im only 15 and im not getting an abortion but i think u shud find out 11st then tell your mom if your gonna keep it its the best thing for u and the baby ==== ; good luckkk ! p.s. him goin to jail is probably not likely to happen if ya mom knows and understands
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reader, Dalmatian +, writes (3 June 2009):
Your boyfriend broke the law when he had sex with achild under the age of 16. He should go to jail to protectother children. Do not kill your baby by abortion butgive the baby to a couple who would be able to properlycare for him/her. It is very possible to set up visitationand contact terms in an adoption contract. Give your babythe gift of life. Please do not abort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Unless someone tells the police he wont be arrested for it. If your boyfriend really loves you you wont lose him over this. You need to tell him! And you need to think long and hard about this. Do you really want to throw your life away at 15 years old? Do you really want to lose the best years of your life? Spending every waking hour looking after another human being when all your friends are out partying? Its entirely up to you, but nobody will frown upon an abortion, your too young to deal with the responsibility. Just know that nobody will judge you.
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (2 June 2009):
Your too young having a baby is hard and without a father to help out will make u sad and make u feel alone. You have to wake up all hours of the night and spend lots of money on pampers and how will u provide for this child. I feel abortion isn't right at all. But having a baby when ur a baby is wrong to. U can't raise a child when u have no idea how to. The cycle will contiune and I think u should take care of it asap. So decide fast! And use condoms because it will happen again and abortions are not the answer to everytime u get pregnat. Make this ur last if u decide to do it. Good luck and think about the hardship not the cute ness of a baby because its not cute!!!
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reader, Rihannax  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 If your absolutly sure about ur bf, then there is a way of him not going to jail. Are you absolutly sure about not having an abortion, youre only a kid yourself, its very hard, and a lot of pain and money goes into it. abortions arent necessarily killing the baby, because the baby isnt born or developed or grown yet, so its just stopping it from developing, the only thing inside your body is still your bfs cum. Id say, have an abortion and wait until the time is right, when your old enough, your bf wont go to jail, ur parents will be behind you 100% and you'll understand a lot more about babies and bringing them up. The baby would love you more if you had it at the right time, it could mess up a lot of things. just have it at the righ time, have u told ur bf?see what he thinks, remeber its his baby too, it could chnage your relationship too, he might not like the idea. hope this helps x
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