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I love him but it is suffocating me.

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Question - (16 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi,

im an indian girl, i always have been one of a kind girl. i have a problem in my relationship which may sound dumb to u ,but it means alot to me.im dating a guy, who is too perfect to be true. he is honest loving,caring,too calculated and very sorted out.everyone in my family likes him. and i he loves me alot.

but my problem is that im a very carefree,fun loving,honest,enjoyable girl.im not perfect and i like it that way.whenever im with him i cant be myself coz i try to be as perfect as possible.which is gettin very difficult and suffocating for me. i dont wanna dump him.so help me with some other way plzzzzzz

love,

saisha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

ok you should sit him down and tell him that you feel that you cant be yourself around him .if he asks you how just tell him its not his falt but you dont want to b yourself around him cause he might feel a bit weird.

if he takes it the wrong way just reassure him that you still love him and your not dumping him your just telling him that you are not the way youve been acting and if he doesnt like the reel u hhes not right for u and there will be someone out there who likes everything about you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

Just be yourself, whats the point in making someone fall for you, if its not even you he'll be falling for. If he as great as you think he is, he'll love you for you. and if he doesnt, then you'll know its not meant to be.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

You should be able to be yourself, good, bad, or ugly, around people who love you. If he doesn't know who you are, how can he really love you? If you're afraid he'll reject you... well, if he doesn't love you for exactly who you are, he's not the right man for you. I'm sure he'll only fall in love with you more if you show him your true self.

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